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The sun is out but it is not hot enough to have to even have the air conditioner on low. Or have the floor fan on at all. It's wonderful.

I made the Costco run and forgot to check and make sure I had gas. I'm sure I do. I filled up that tank not that long ago. I'm not even sure it's all that much cheaper at Costco - it just seems like it should be and I'm a stockholder so there.

When I got home I had a little work to do - a couple of technet articles - my favorite work. And I swapped a couple of notes with the program manager at my boss's office and told her I was getting a leetle bored so if she stumbled over more stuff, please remember me. She said she thought I was really busy! But, she also said they were getting a lot of inquiries for web production work and she'd see what she could turn for me. Nice.

Baseball game starts in 10 mins.

Oh I finally did hear from Carbonite and she had a very plausible reason for my not hearing earlier and answered my questions with good answers so I am going to sign up both computers. Unlimited space and automatic are kind of impressive. Also it behaves nicely when I RAS into the Microsoft network. She said they are planning on versioning so what the heck.

No seque into Memory Lane... Just jump over the road sign.



I remember exactly and distinctly when I learned about menstruation. I was 12 and my Mom told me. Prior to that, I'd never heard a peep about it. She handled it well from start to finish.

The start was that she sent my sister to bed and I didn't have to go. She could have told me I had terminal cancer, with 1 week to live and it would have been fine as long as I got to stay up and Nancy didn't.

She had a little book - I think it's was something like "Becoming a Woman" or something equally as cheesey. She had a box of Kotex and one of those medieval elastic belts. She covered the basics in a very matter of fact way. She mentioned babies very briefly and acted as if they whole thing was a nothingburger. I don't remember being at all stressed or worried or even confused. She told me that if I got my first period at school to go to the school secretary and tell her.

Sure enough, maybe a couple of months later, I got my first period. I knew exactly what it was. I went to the school secretary. She was a little too precious about it but gave me a pad and some safety pins and I figured it out.

I went home and told Mom and she gave me a box of Tampax and the instructions and told me to give them a try because it was way more comfortable that those pads. (She was a master of the understatement.) The box came with instructions and it was a bit tricky to master but I was motivated. When Daddy came home, I heard her telling him about it and I didn't think that was necessary but it didn't bother me too much.

The mothers of my girlfriends would not let them use Tampax. Not one of them. They came to me. For a while I had a nice little under the table business going. Looking back on it, it's no wonder Mom didn't drag me to the doctor for hemorrhaging issues.

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Date: 2006-07-29 12:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] annenahaymus.livejournal.com
You're lucky. My Mom is very Catholic and didn't handle issues about the body maturing or sex very well at all. In fact, it was rather pathetic. When I started, I was very fortunate that I was home. I told her and she was very good about it. But I was so pissed that I wasn't told before. Part of me thinks maybe it was because I was an early bloomer and started at eleven. Maybe she wasn't expecting to have to deal with it so soon.

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Date: 2006-07-29 02:12 am (UTC)
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Oh, I got that same Kotex book! Mom was very resistant and let the school handle it (and Dad was an ass and made a production about "my little girl is growing up") but I was very late (16), which felt to me like I was being incredibly polite.

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Date: 2006-07-29 04:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roadskoller.livejournal.com
Ah yes. We had a Disney like movie about the whole deal at school. I was really confused. I tried to talk to mom about how confused I was, but she kind of blew me off and made me feel uncomfortable.
My friend and I were sitting on the couch (get this) reading Shakespeare to each other and I felt really awful. Yep.
My mother blew it off again and gave me all the prehistoric equipment from back then.
It wasn't a pleasant thing ever.

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Date: 2006-07-29 11:39 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] vasilatos
I got the clip-on crotch mattress also, and a passing comment that you're not supposed to flush them. It was like wearing an old shoe.

Oh god, some of the conversations we had at pajama parties after that stupid Disney movie... It left out that guys have to actually get an erection, which confused us to no end ("How does he get it in?")... Being 12 was a drag.

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Date: 2006-07-29 11:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roadskoller.livejournal.com
Being 12 was a drag.
No kidding. That's when I started my depression too. Life was very very dark.

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Date: 2006-08-06 02:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] letmesaythis.livejournal.com
I don't remember my mom telling me about menstruation but I do remember that I had a menstruation kit that came in the mail. It had the belt and other stuff plus the booklet. One night I was trying to memorize the books of the bible and I got so upset about it that I cried. My mother, who was helping me, said, "What's the matter with you? Are you getting ready to have your period?" I'll be damned if it didnt' start the next day. I was so mad at her for being right that I didn't tell her until that first one was all over.

I told my daughter about menstruation very recently and she's nine. A while later I bought a package of pads for her to keep on hand should she need them and just in case she feels funny about telling me. The next day I picked her up after work and she said, "Mommy, I am wearing one of those things from my bottom drawer and I've had it on all day." It took a beat for it to sink in and I responded with, "Did you NEED one or are you just doing a test run?" It was a test run.

The day after we got her new bedroom set I was putting away some of her clothes and I opened that bottom drawer. She had laid out ALL of the pads along the bottom of the drawer in a very orderly fashion. Nothing else...just a sea of pink-wrapped pads.

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