doom and bitch [you have been warned]
Jan. 8th, 2004 07:58 am
So my latest fret is that they offer me part time and want me to work it every single day instead of x days a week.
I've been noodling this around since last night and I can't come up with a way that I can make it work for me. Munching a chunk out of every work day just won't get it. 3 days out of 5, yes. Part of every day, no.
I am borrowing trouble. I know that but I can't get it out of my head. Maybe putting it here will clear some cerebral real estate.
(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 08:05 am (UTC)Also , I am pretty sure you are sounding ready for a new challenge ...otherwise you would have leapt at the chance to stay on no matter what hours were offered ..yes/no?
(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 08:13 am (UTC)And, to you second point. I am absolutely ready for a change - part time would be a change. BUT, I think what you mean and the change I need is to get my ass outta her. And yes, I think it's probably time.
(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 08:19 am (UTC)If they don't have money in the budget for you full-time where is the part-time money coming from? Besides losing the severance if any you'd also probably lose benefits too (again assuming you have them there) if you went part time. Part time might be good tho' if you use it to look for a better job...ask the postman--he's always up the happenings in your area lol.
a fairly good job of CMA --
(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 08:35 am (UTC)And the mailman is going to be pulled into the loop as soon as they tell me what's what - either part time or exit date. He's absolutely in the needs to know group.
I think your A is pretty well C'd. Plus, your thots sure help me chrystalize mine one way or the other!
(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 08:37 am (UTC)I presented my argument in such a way that they believed they would get more out of me if I did whole days, rather than the disruption of half days. I nearly fell off my chair when they agreed with me :)
(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 08:39 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 08:49 am (UTC)Benefits, especially health insurance, should be a major consideration. So leaving this job would be a big risk. And new jobs frequently don't work out; then you could find yourself without ANY job and NO benefits. Yuk.
Can you afford the lower pay? If you can, I'd say keep the part time job and benefits, enjoy the extra time you have, and count your blessings.
I'm rambling here... and not offering any solutions, either. Sorry. I'm just giving you my silly take on things. You're just going to have to think about it carefully, weighing the pros and cons. I'm on your side. :-)
(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 09:09 am (UTC)I'm glad you are on my side!!!
(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 09:43 am (UTC)Your distinction is good... I've had careers all my life, I'm ready for a job now.
(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 09:10 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 09:37 am (UTC)And dont forget to flutter your eyelashes . .
(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 09:46 am (UTC)Make the best deal you can right now. They need you or they won't deal at all. Your terms. No part days, it's not efficient (unless you have some compelling reason to want to). And it frees you up to do some other work (or not) if you choose. And you only have to do the parts of your job that make the best use of your skills, and you get benefits, and you can do it for someone else as well, on your terms.
Nothing is permanent. So make the deal now and re evaluate in 3 or 6 months. You will be in a better position to work out details, or know to walk away. But if you don't get an agreement with them now - it could be much harder to get it in a month or two.
I try not to give advice - but it's my life right now - and I have had way too much coffee.
(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 10:21 am (UTC)Keeping you in my thoughts, and wishing the best.
(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 10:49 am (UTC)stick to your guns on that one!
(no subject)
Date: 2004-01-08 01:52 pm (UTC)Just think of all the times in your life when this would have been much worse. You will come out of this in a better position, we all agree on that.