In 1949, creative naming of babies was not a thing. That year, the most common name for girls was Linda. And, that was my parents' first choice for me, their first baby. But, they had a dog named Linda so I got choice number 2. Susan. Susan was the 5th most common name that year. But in Winston-Salem, NC it was tops.
I rarely had fewer than 5 or 6 other Susan's in my class at school. We were kiddy litter sprinkled all over everywhere. When I was still in elementary school, I thought Diedre was the perfect name for me and no, you would not be allowed to call me DeeDee. In Junior High, I changed my imaginary name to Stuart. Also changed my last name to Caldwell. Often when I met strangers, like on a bus or something, I'd tell them my name was Stuart Caldwell.
When I went to a fancy private high school where many of the girls had been given their mother's maiden name for first name. Brooke, Gray, Marshall... Susan was even stupider sounding there but there were fewer of us.
When I was in my 30's, I got online for the first time. Electronic Bulletin boards. The other people on those EBBS were male people. Mostly kids. I used the 'handle' Susan and got me some attention. Those kids were thrilled to talk to an actual girl and, in turn,they taught me probably 50% or more of what I know about computers today. Had my name been something less feminine, I'd probably be a retired shoe salesperson with a rotary dial land line and a diary with a lock and key.
Now Susan a name reserved mostly for old ladies - at least the ones left. After 70 years, I've gotten used to it. It's an ok name.
I rarely had fewer than 5 or 6 other Susan's in my class at school. We were kiddy litter sprinkled all over everywhere. When I was still in elementary school, I thought Diedre was the perfect name for me and no, you would not be allowed to call me DeeDee. In Junior High, I changed my imaginary name to Stuart. Also changed my last name to Caldwell. Often when I met strangers, like on a bus or something, I'd tell them my name was Stuart Caldwell.
When I went to a fancy private high school where many of the girls had been given their mother's maiden name for first name. Brooke, Gray, Marshall... Susan was even stupider sounding there but there were fewer of us.
When I was in my 30's, I got online for the first time. Electronic Bulletin boards. The other people on those EBBS were male people. Mostly kids. I used the 'handle' Susan and got me some attention. Those kids were thrilled to talk to an actual girl and, in turn,they taught me probably 50% or more of what I know about computers today. Had my name been something less feminine, I'd probably be a retired shoe salesperson with a rotary dial land line and a diary with a lock and key.
Now Susan a name reserved mostly for old ladies - at least the ones left. After 70 years, I've gotten used to it. It's an ok name.

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Date: 2020-01-16 09:55 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2020-01-16 10:15 pm (UTC)My family called/calls me Susie :)
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Date: 2020-01-16 10:54 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2020-01-17 01:13 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2020-01-17 01:25 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2020-01-17 05:25 am (UTC)Howard was a very common name in my suburban NY neighborhood, but it was close to unique in Seattle except as a surname.
I ran a BBS from about 1981-1994. Women were rare elsewhere, but in the Bay Area especially Santa Cruz to San Jose we had regular users parties which were about 1/3 female. However, only one sysop was a woman. She went on to be an engineer at AutoCAD and later worked on the first Mac. Another became a veterinarian, another is a medical device QA chemist, and one got married and is a guard at Folsom prison.
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Date: 2020-01-17 07:41 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2020-01-17 12:18 pm (UTC)I love that you wanted to be called Stuart.
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Date: 2020-01-17 05:31 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2020-01-17 06:32 pm (UTC)Judy seems to have had a lot more longevity than Susan... I've known Judys of all ages but, yep, probably been ten years or so since I've known of a new Judy :)
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Date: 2020-01-18 06:51 pm (UTC)~Judith
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Date: 2020-01-19 06:03 am (UTC)My orange teddy bear I had when I was a kid, I named Susie. I have no idea why I chose that name! I was only 3 or so. :)